1.       Practice active listening: Pay attention to your partner’s perspective and try to understand their point of view.

2.       Communicate openly and honestly: Share your feelings, needs, and concerns with your partner. Listen to their perspective as well.

3.       Avoid blame and criticism: Focus on finding solutions, not placing blame.

4.       Find middle ground: Be willing to negotiate and find middle ground in order to resolve conflicts.

5.       Prioritize the relationship: Make your relationship a priority and invest time and effort into making it work.

6.       Take responsibility: Own up to your own mistakes and avoid blaming your partner for problems in the relationship.

7.       Practice empathy: Put yourself in your partner’s shoes and try to understand their feelings.

8.       Focus on solutions: Work together to find solutions to problems instead of dwelling on the issues.

9.       Focus on the positive: Acknowledge and appreciate the good things in your relationship, even during tough times.

10.   Take breaks: If you need a break from a heated conversation, take a step back and come back to it when you’re both calm.

11.   Reconnect: Spend quality time together, engage in activities you both enjoy, and focus on the positive aspects of your relationship.

12.   Don’t give up too easily: Relationships require effort and commitment. Work through problems together and don’t give up without trying.

13.   Seek professional help: If nothing works, consider seeing a couples’ therapist to help you work through relationship issues.